Showing posts with label black family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label black family. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Videos Every Black Parent Should Watch

Black Parents Discussing Black Parenting and Black Family Issues. We just wrapped up our Creating Conversations Series, three amazing webinar discussions with wonderful Black Moms and Dads just like you. If you missed them, you can now watch them online and share your comments too!

Here are the videos:

Do Good Black Father's Exist? Find out what these dads have to say...
http://blackmomsclub.ning.com/page/do-good-black-fathers-exist

Are Black Moms as strong as everyone thinks? Let's here our moms share their point of view.
http://blackmomsclub.ning.com/page/do-good-black-fathers-exist

What is happening to our Babies? Black parents talking about Black Parenting... raising positive healthy smart and wonderful black families.
http://blackmomsclub.ning.com/page/black-parenting-1


Healthy Living. What are you feeding your families?
http://blackmomsclub.ning.com/page/healthy-eating


For up to date BMC news, be sure to also signup for the Black Moms Club Newsletter.
http://blackmomsclub.ning.com/page/newsletter-1

Saturday, January 5, 2008

Enjoy Cultural Events with Your Family : Black Family Activities

Black Family: Cultural Events
What's Popping? African American Events the whole family can enjoy. Take the time to be Afro-postive with your kids. Go to Black Expos, Book Fairs, Hair Shows, Park Concerts, Black History Events. Find out what is going on in your area. This tip featured in: Seeking Support: Guide for Single Black Mothers

1. African Ancestry: Discover Your Roots
2. Alvin Ailey Dance Company
3. Heritage Makers
4. Ebony Black Family Reunion Tour
5. Essence Music Festival
6. Tom Joyner: Family Reunion Disney Trip
7. UniverSoul Circus
8. What's Poppin Central: Black Event Listing

African American Holidays
1. African American Christmas
2. Black History Month
3. Kwanzaa

Black Family: Websites
Black Family Related Websites

Black Family Guide to the Internet: Find all the best online websites for the African American Family.

1. Black Culture
2. Black Family
3. Black History
4. Black Parenting


Review the complete Black Family Online Guide on Mahogany Momma's zine for black parents.

Monday, November 19, 2007

Friday, October 26, 2007

African American Christmas Movies and More

As always Mahogany Momma is on the grind, trying to put out news and information that is Black Parent Positive and quality Edutainment for African American Children. So, let me tell you what's new to review:
  1. African American Christmas: New Movies, Cartoons, and Holiday Traditions
  2. Proud Poppas and Positive Black Father Figures in Film
  3. Single Black Mothers and Teens: Get the support you deserve
  4. African American Homeschooling: The Best Workbooks to the Best Resources
  5. Boys to Be Like: Positive African American Animated Characters for Black Boys to emulate and enjoy!
  6. Black Moms Connecting Online
  7. Learn How Black Students are Getting into College: Scholarship Programs, Youth Programs, and more.
*Sigh* I'm quite tired, but very happy to be able to share all this great information with you. My dream for today: Getting more Black Families to support black films and build Black movie libraries. From films like Dream Girls and Coach Carter to American Gangster and Hotel Rwanda, we can really make an impact on our children's lives, providing them with positive role models and a better understanding of our Black History through the power of Black Cinema.

Each One Teach One

-lhenry
-Search Urban : Black Directory

Friday, September 21, 2007

Free Jena 6

Dear friend please read this post below, cut and paste it onto your site and spread the word...



I just learned about a case of segregation-era oppression happening today in Jena, Louisiana. I signed onto ColorOfChange.org's campaign for justice in Jena, and wanted to invite you to do the same.

http://www.colorofchange.org/jena/?id=1975-364819

Last fall in Jena, the day after two Black high school students sat beneath the "white tree" on their campus, nooses were hung from the tree. When the superintendent dismissed the nooses as a "prank," more Black students sat under the tree in protest. The District Attorney then came to the school accompanied by the town's police and demanded that the students end their protest, telling them, "I can be your best friend or your worst enemy... I can take away your lives with a stroke of my pen."

A series of white-on-black incidents of violence followed, and the DA did nothing. But when a white student was beaten up in a schoolyard fight, the DA responded by charging six black students with attempted murder and conspiracy to commit murder.

It's a story that reads like one from the Jim Crow era, when judges, lawyers and all-white juries used the justice system to keep blacks in "their place." But it's happening today. The families of these young men are fighting back, but the story has gotten minimal press. Together, we can make sure their story is told and that the Governor of Louisiana intervenes and provides justice for the Jena 6. It starts now. Please join me:

http://www.colorofchange.org/jena/?id=1975-364819

The noose-hanging incident and the DA's visit to the school set the stage for everything that followed. Racial tension escalated over the next couple of months, and on November 30, the main academic building of Jena High School was burned down in an unsolved fire. Later the same weekend, a black student was beaten up by white students at a party. The next day, black students at a convenience store were threatened by a young white man with a shotgun. They wrestled the gun from him and ran away. While no charges were filed against the white man, the students were later arrested for the theft of the gun.

That Monday at school, a white student, who had been a vocal supporter of the students who hung the nooses, taunted the black student who was beaten up at the off-campus party and allegedly called several black students "nigger." After lunch, he was knocked down, punched and kicked by black students. He was taken to the hospital, but was released and was well enough to go to a social event that evening.

Six Black Jena High students, Robert Bailey (17), Theo Shaw (17), Carwin Jones (18), Bryant Purvis (17), Mychal Bell (16) and an unidentified minor, were expelled from school, arrested and charged with second-degree attempted murder. The first trial ended last month, and Mychal Bell, who has been in prison since December, was convicted of aggravated battery and conspiracy to commit aggravated battery (both felonies) by an all-white jury in a trial where his public defender called no witnesses. During his trial, Mychal's parents were ordered not to speak to the media and the court prohibited protests from taking place near the courtroom or where the judge could see them.

Mychal is scheduled to be sentenced on July 31st, and could go to jail for 22 years. Theo Shaw's trial is next. He will finally make bail this week.

The Jena Six are lucky to have parents and loved ones who are fighting tooth and nail to free them. They have been threatened but they are standing strong. We know that if the families have to go it alone, their sons will be a long time coming home. But if we act now, we can make a difference.

Join me in demanding that Louisiana Governor Kathleen Blanco get involved to make sure that justice is served for Mychal Bell, and that DA Reed Walters drop the charges against the 5 boys who have not yet gone to trial.

- http://www.colorofchange.org/jena/?id=1975-364819
- What Can you do to support Jena 6: Find Out here - NAACP LEADS MARCH ON JENA

Thanks.

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Building Better Black Relationships

As I continue to develop the BlackMomsClub and connect with other Black Woman online on this is very clear to me - Black Women love to talk about Black Men. We talk about dead beat dads, we talk about single motherhood, black men with white women, down low brothers, and everything else in between. However there isn't very much focus on the real issue, the thing that we are all trying to figure out ... How do we, as Black Women, create and maintain healthy relationships with Black Men? Whether your a mom or not, if you have an interest in the opposite sex, I'm sure this question has crossed your mind, but it's not something we talk about as much as all the other stuff.

That being said, I thought it was high time I devoted a section of this blog to talking about Black Love and Black Relationships. I want to focus on the good moreso than the bad because we hardly ever talk about the good stuff like strong Black Couples, or Good Black Men. I also want to here from readers about their experiences with Black Love.

This is an important topic to me because if my son, or any black child is going to grow up and create strong black family structures, they need to be able to imitate the positive interactions they see between their parents.

So that being said, Black Love Lives! Let me show you how much it does...

Friday, September 14, 2007

Black Fathers Network

Positive Black Fathers looking for a place to connect with other positive African American men then please join the Black Fathers Network.

Also check out my guide "Proud Poppas and Phenomenal Father Figures" for a listing of other websites and works of noteworthy Black Men.

-lhenry
-Each One Teach One

The pains of a Black Father

Today I read a great post on izania, from one man who talks about his role as a strong Black Father and what he feels is missing in the Black Community as far as more black dads involved in the lives of their children.

Read the post: The pains of a Black Father

In response to his post, I thought it important to point out...

Although I am not a father, I am a mother, as one who does a great deal of research on the topic of Black Families I would like to share what I know...

However small it may seem, there is a growing number of black fathers who wish to not only be an active member of their children's lives but connect with other fathers who are on the same page.

I know we need to get more black dads on track, but as the same time we also need to demystify this belief that all black men run away from the responsibility of taking care of their children. After all, one way to fix the problem is to lead by positive example and we can't really do that if we don't acknowledge those do right dads.

That being said please take a look at some of these sites:

* African American Dad: www.fatherdad.com
* Proud Poppa: www.proudpoppa.net [A Magazine]
* The Million Father March Project: www.blackstarproject.org
* Black Marriage in America

These websites and many others, along with books, films and articles are featured in my eGuide: Proud Poppas and Phenomenal Black Fathers: a close look at African American Fathers and Father Figures who make the black community better for all of us.

Again, am just a lady but you know I had to had my 2 cents.

-lhenry [founder of blackmomsclub.com]

Thursday, September 13, 2007

The Black Family

One of the most unique attributes of the American Black Family is the role of the Matriarchy. Whereas most of western culture is founded on the construction of a dominant patriarchal figure, the roots of Black culture are deeply embedded in the role of the mother. The dominant black matriarch emerged out of the system of slaver and fell into the restrictive social definitions of gender. In other words, throughout the days of slavery, black males had no control over the well being of his partner or children. Black women, however, were able to retain a maternal power derived from being both childbearings and managers of both their young and those of their master.

When slavery ended, blacks regained control over their bodies, but the mental chains of oppression were still visible. Segregation, miseducation, and poverty made it almost impossible for black men to acquire the patriarchal power common to their male counterparts. More over, black woman were accustomed to being dominant figures in the household, and have retained that role to this day. It is true that there are cases in which black fathers claim their title as man of the household, but for the most part the matriarchy lives on.

Could there possibly be anything wrong with that? What do you think?

My Man, My Daddy


Thinking on Paper I
From the diapers to the diaphragm I just don't understand why my lack of a father affects my need for a man.

Touched By Boys Loved By Men
A Collection of Poems by LaShanda Henry


It's a Father Daughter Thing
An Excerpt of Proud Poppas - Maghoany Momma Guide #10

No one will argue that sons need their fathers. Dads know how to teach their little boys to grow up and be men. They provide them with the type of discipline and insight that only a father can give. Words can not express how important it is for every boy to have a father, but what about every little girl? Is it equally important for our girls to have a father figure in their lives?

The truth is that every little girl needs her father. Fathers do a lot more for their daughters than simply serve as a source of protection. They can teach their daughters how to be just as strong as little boys. Moreover, fathers have the ability to show young girls what a healthy man-woman relationship should be through their interaction with their spouse, children, and others. Every woman looking for a good man should be able to find someone who reminds her of her father.

Gwyneth Paltrow expressed the impact her father had on her life in a very touching episode of Oprah. She spoke of the time her father took her on her first trip to Paris. Upon returning home from what could only be described as an amazing experiencing, Gwyneth’s dad asked her if she knew why the two of them took this trip without the rest of the family. When she replied no, he told her it was because he wanted her first trip to Paris to be with a man who would always love her. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if every father could express such a sentiment to their daughter in their own way?

In short, both our boys and our girls need to have positive father figures around them so that they can visualize and hopefully recreate more healthy family structures within the black community.

Father Daughter Must See Film: Daddy's Little Girls
Find More Mahogany Momma's Black Relationship Films


The Get' Em Girls Guide to Unlocking the Power of Cuisine

Whether you are trying to impress that special someone or keep your man happy, this is a recipe book that every sista should have.

The Get' Em Girls Guide to Unlocking the Power of Cuisine (The Official Get 'em Girl's Guide): $19.95
The Get' Em Girls Guide to Unlocking the Power of Cuisine

With sassy, city-girl wit, the self-proclaimed princesses of a new urban culinary lifestyle share a collection of over 120 of their favorite recipes that are sure to complement every stage of a growing romance. Whether you're planning an intimate dinner for two with your honey or a down home feast reminiscent of his Mama's Sunday dinner, The Get' Em Girl's Guide to Unlocking the Power of Cuisine is filled with helpful advice from stocking your pantry and shopping for basic kitchen tools to tips on proper setting and wine selections. The Get 'Em Girl's Guide to Unlocking the Power of Cuisine has the recipes that you'll want to cook and eat but is about much more than the food; it's about investing time in yourself and your relationship. Going after what you want in unconventional ways. Thinking outside the box- and going out and getting what's yours! Read More Details

F.Y.I. - I had the pleasure of meeting the authors of this book, they are really cool down to earth ladies.


Black Romance in Books and on the Big Screen
Mahogany Momma's Online Store
Black Relationships Section

Monday, September 10, 2007

Black Men Vs Black Women: Fixing Our Issues

“Between The Lines”: 50 Solutions To “The Black Dilemma” by: Anthony Asadullah Samad

Solution 13:
It is time for black men and black women to call a truce. All black men are not triflin’ and all black women are not mean and evil. The dysfunction of the family that now has the new “black family” being 59% single female-headed households stems from the dysfunction of the black male-female relationship. The black community has lost its balance because the black family has lost its balance. We have to restore the black family unit where both men and women are present. Black relationships don’t have to be traditional to be balanced, but every household must be covered. Whether they are men-women, gay-lesbian, man-sharing, women-sharing, whatever they are, black men and women cannot raise a community distrusting/fighting each other.

Black.Family.Love 143


Black.Family.Love 143, originally uploaded by blackoutloud.

Me and my little tribe celebrating my son's third month of life.

Saturday, September 8, 2007

Million African-American households top $100,000 income in 2006

San Francisco, California, USA. (SANEPR.com) September 3, 2007 -- More than 1 million African-American households earned more than $100,000 last year, according to the latest edition of blackmoney.com, the online daily business newspaper, which cites new 2006 data from the U.S. Census Bureau's American Community Survey.

Two-thirds of those affluent households are concentrated in just eight of the 50 states -- New York, Maryland, California, Texas, Georgia, Virginia, Florida and New Jersey, according to executive editor John William Templeton.

blackmoney.com's special report on black income also analyzed 2006 income data for the three states most affected by Hurricane Katrina to note no significant impact on African-American households in Louisiana, Mississippi or Alabama from the $125 billion in hurricane recovery spending, additional evidence that funds are not reaching the families which need them. In 2006, 43 percent of the black households in the three states had income below $20,000.

contact J.W. Templeton 415-240-3537 executiveeditor@blackmoney.com

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This article was featured in Today's Drum: Positive, Motivational African American News

Thursday, March 29, 2007

A Must Have Web Guide for African American Parents

http://msoyonline.com/afrocentric-learning-tools/ebooks/bpwebgiude_c2smll.jpgAfrocentric Learning Tools presents ....

A Web Guide for Black Parents by LaShanda Henry


Currently on sale: Only $7.95





This e-book includes an extensive listing of over 200 Afrocentric / Multicultural Websites for Black Parents, Students, Children, and Educators. To Purchase this e-Book visit www.lulu.com/content/459061. The Chapters include: Black Parenting Online Guides, Black Homeschooling Information, Teaching Black Students, Teaching Black History, Teaching about Africa, All About Kwanzaa, Afrocentric / Multicultural Online Games, Activities, and Resources, Black Movies for Families and Kids, Black Bookstores, College Preparation of Minority Students, Black Teenpreneurs and Career Planning for Minority Students, African - African American Folktales, Genernal Black Resources Online, and Black Freebies Online.


Currently on sale: Only $7.95


Chapter Details:



  • Black Parenting Online: This section includes information about websites that focus on Black Parenting, Raising Black Children, Black Mothers, Black Fathers, and Black Maternity.

  • Black Homeschoolers: This section includes information about websites that focus on Black / African American Homeschoolers, their support groups, online resources, and literary publications.

  • Teaching Black Students: This section includes information about websites that focus on Afrocentric Educational Materials and lesson plans for Black Homeschoolers and Educators of Black Students.

  • Teaching Black History: This section includes information about websites that focus on educating others about Black / African American History.

  • Teaching about Africa: This section includes information about websites that focus on educating others about Africa, African Culture, and Historical African Events.

  • All about Kwanzaa: This section includes information about websites that focus on Kwanzaa information, resources, products, and online activities.

  • African and African American Folktales Online: This section includes information about websites that focus on collecting and displaying African / African American Folktales.

  • Afrocentric / Multicultural Online Games and Activities: This section includes information about websites that focus on hosting online games and activities with Afrocentric or Multicultural themes.

  • Afrocentric / Multicultural Online Resources: This section includes information about websites that focus on promoting or selling Afrocentric / Multicultural products, services, and resources.

  • Blicks: Black Flicks for Families & Kids: This section includes information about websites that feature quality Black Movies, Short films and Animated Cartoons for Black Families to enjoy online or purchase in DVD and/or VHS format.

  • Black Bookstores: Find Afrocentric Literature for Kids and Teens Online: This section includes information about websites that feature black books, specifically those for young children and teens.

  • College Preparation for Minority Students: This section includes information about websites that feature books, scholarships, and other resources for minority students preparing for college.

  • Black Teenpreneurs & Career Planning for Minority Students: This section includes information about websites that foster teen entrepreneurship among black youth and provide career planning resources and opportunities for minority students.

  • General Black Resources Online: This section includes information about websites that offer black resources in general, with a particular focus on youth orientated content.

  • Black Freebies Online for Families and Children: This section includes information about websites that offer freebies to Black Online Viewers.


A Few Words from the author:


I designed this particular guide for Black Parents who are interested in making Afrocentric Learning and exposure to Black Culture an integral part of their children’s development. From support groups to online activities, within this book is an extensive list of over 200 links created just for you and your children. Though it’s often times hard to tell, the internet is actually filled with an increasing number of positive, multicultural web pages. Some are a little harder to find than others, but that’s why you have me to do the searching so all you have to do is sit back and enjoy the sites!


~LaShanda Henry


*This e-Book includes the following type of cultural web links: Black, African, African American, Afrocentric, Africentric, Multicultural.


Also available at lulu.com: www.lulu.com/content/459061

Thursday, January 12, 2006

Useful Black Family Links

If you are looking for more links that highlight resources for African American Families / Black Parents, here are a few places to start.
  1. Black Family
  2. Black Living
  3. Black Parenting
  4. Black Children
  5. Black Mothers
  6. African American Maternity
  7. Black Parenting
  8. Black Stay at Home Moms
  9. Black Teens
  10. Black Events & Travel

These and other link pages available on Multiple Shades of You Online: an e-community for African American online viewers.

Search Black on Multiple Shades of You Online

Friday, October 14, 2005

Black Families Online

Black Families Online: Directory of Online Resources for Black Parents: $26.54
$26.54
Black Families Onl..



Black Families Online: Directory of Online Resources for Black Parents. The reviews about this book have been great. If you are looking for a way to find the best sites for black parents, this might be a great start.


Raising Black Children: Two Leading Psychiatrists Confront the Educational, Social and Emotional Problems Facing Black Children: $8.99
$8.99
Raising Black Chil..


In this revision of their acclaimed parenting manual Black Child Care: How To Bring Up a Healthy Black Child in America ( LJ 5/15/75), noted psychiatrists Comer ( Maggie's American Dream: The Life and Times of a Black Family , LJ 11/1/88) and Poussaint explore central psychological, social, and educational aspects of child development from infancy through adolescence. Using a question-and-answer format, they address problems and situations particular to raising an African American child in a predominantly white society. Topics discussed include how to cope with racism, the pros and cons of busing, and universal child - rearing concerns. Many issues overlooked in traditional parenting manuals, such as the absent parent, gang involvement, and teenage sexuality, are treated here with admirable candor and directness. The importance of developing a child's self-esteem, sense of security, and racial and personal pride is affirmed throughout. This is a necessary addition to all parenting and parent-teacher collections.
- Linda Cullum, Lake Superior State Univ. Lib., Sault Ste. Marie, Mich. Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc.


The Black Parenting Book: Caring for Our Children in the First Five Years: $4.97
$4.97
The Black Parentin..


The parents of America's 3.6 million black children under age six face unique challenges and, until now, there has not been one complete resource for them. Combining pediatric expertise, cultural wisdom, insight from leading experts, and the newest research, The Black Parenting Book finally fills this void. With stories from parents across the country and authoritative advice for all aspects of a child's early life--including sleep, nutrition, discipline, play, medical treatments, hair and body care, spirituality, and education--this is the most comprehensive book of its kind.